Thanks for speaking up Reverie - I think this marriage has just left a bad taste in my mouth, and I allowed my own experience and bias to paint all salespeople with the same deceptive brush. But I'm sure my husband is just a special type of difficult and many others in your profession are honest, kind, and noble. My circle is unfortunately so small and homogenous that I seldom encounter the "good ones" like yourself, but please do accept my apology for that sweeping assumption.