Thanks for reminding me someone can find humor in the situation, Tanya - goodness knows I need to! And regarding his pulling the rug during the divorce, that's exactly what I'm scared of and largely what's kept me so indecisive for so long. I'm scared of what's going to happen if I do mention the "d" word...I feel like I'm one tiny person up against him and his army of lawyers, friends, and accomplices...